I was overcoming obstacle after obstacle for the first 15 years of my life. In other words, whether it be abuse, trauma, cancer: I saw it in one form or another. Soon, I realized I had no idea who “Cheyenne” was outside of those traumatic experiences compared to when I was in them.

So, I’ve spent the last ten years on a self-exploration journey looking to heal childhood wounds, adjust to life with a disability and chronic illnesses, and learn what it meant to be me.

My journey will never really be over. However, I’ve learned a lot along the way. So, I decided to share my story and show that it’s okay to feel lost after trauma. Taking the time to learn who you are, and to be confidently and chronically yourself, is absolutely one of the most important things you’ll do afterwards.